Mysogynist/.?

Help me understand. Links to studies of the occurrence of a man being both would be helpful. I am trying to understand someone very close to me for whom I care deeply, and for myself as well. I guess I am trying to decipher why I am also afraid at times of this person, boundary issues. Maybe he is neither, or both , or maybe I have just been cooped up watching too much Lifetime . Education is a path to enlightenment, so here I begin. Thanks.